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别看三老爷在屋里随意的很,但要是在外,或者有女眷在就木着一张脸,宋表弟夫妻在,他就跟带了面罩似得,要不就不说话,要不就是有儿子在,就专注儿子。
不然外面都说他是个乖张之人。
有次侯夫人都问苏氏,这三弟在屋里也这么的,看着不别扭呀,说话不是梗脖子,就是沉着脸,苏氏乐,也没多说,只说他就那样囫囵过去。
三老爷下午和宋表弟在庄子里转悠,宋表弟就恭喜表哥,说德哥如今的日子过的让人羡慕,
三老爷想起太太的话,就说道:“你也别成天光顾着这里,多回府陪陪弟妹,一个妇人在家,没个知心人日子也难过。”
宋表弟笑着的脸淡下来,摇头道:“不是我非得沾花惹草,可我那媳妇……,唉,没法和她好好说话,我就是想和她好好过日子,也得舒心了才能过,不然成天的三天两头的闹腾,搁谁谁不烦?”
“堂前教子,枕边教妻,弟妹嫁了你也有二十年了,这二十年你作为一个丈夫教过她什么?既然知道弟妹哪些地方不对,你也该好好告诉她,弟妹一心一意的嫁了你,二十年都捂不热,要是别的妻子,早就把你扔一边了,哪能到现在还一心装着你?多少人家妇人有了儿孙,哪管夫婿纳妾厮混,只要给了嫡妻嫡子该有的体面,可是弟妹却不同,这点你就该珍惜,有啥不能好好说?非得她吵你蹦?”
这话还是太太有次说起宋表弟夫妻时说的话,不过太太说的比这难听,说表弟当丈夫的首先没做好,一个二八少女怀着满腔爱意嫁给表弟,没有接触什么人,婆婆早就没了,没人教导,只和表弟最近,他放在内宅保管使用了二十年,变成这样,不该是表弟该负的责任?
当时听了这话,三老爷目瞪口呆,还有这么比喻的?保管使用?
但回头想想也是这么个理,女子十五岁嫁进夫家,就和丈夫一个院住着,每日见到的就是婆婆丈夫,还要操持一堆家务,等有了孩子,当母亲的又要教导孩子,三老爷就想如果我有个嫡女,哦,不,我的八娘子十五六嫁给表弟当儿媳,就弟妹这样的婆母能教导个什么,如果女婿也跟表弟似得,到处乱蹦跶,二十年过去又嫌弃我女不会说话,见了就烦,那我可得找女婿说道说道了,二十年跟你学的不会说话,你要是好好教了,还能教不会?
这会想起,三老爷不悦的看了看宋表弟,把他看糊涂了,德哥这是咋了?难道我媳妇给表嫂说难听话了?
三老爷扭头看向远处的大嫂搀着母亲在散步,太太带着几个孩子在玩,心里惭愧,大嫂是嫡长媳,更是操持大房不说,还要顶起侯府的将来,母亲又是个糊涂人,心疼舅家多过儿孙,自己太太二十多年来默默打理三房,照顾他的妾室和庶出,可他当父亲的哪?对儿子顶多是教训几句,成天的没干正经事,还好夫善父哪,丢人!回去就要把那文给烧了。
所以,三老爷就问表弟了,“你家鹏飞你管了多少?”
宋表弟给问懵了,不知表哥啥意思。
“最多就是鹏飞闹了事你揍他一顿吧,他小时爱吃啥,生了几次病,读书谁在后面挂心?你知道吗?谁管的?不是弟妹?别说家里有下人,我三房的下人少吗?你侄子那样我和你表嫂都脱不开手,累呀,头两年我都每晚腰疼的睡不着,鹏飞也不比你侄子少费心,那时你干嘛哪?弟妹抱怨你不该?孩子不是你的?如今我是知道了,妇人为何会变得脾气越来越不好,上要伺候公婆,下有孩子闹腾的、要教导的、还有庶出要照应的,如果再有几个碍眼的妾,有个相公不贴心,叫谁谁不心烦?表弟的月钱不够自己花的,你院里的这么多人,不是弟妹拿嫁妆补贴?补给谁了?不都是你的孩子你的妾和庶子?我也不用说你,我承认愧对你表嫂,但我改,我还有良心,我不能负了为我操劳一辈子的媳妇。”
三老爷看表弟闷声不说话,又说道:“我想好了,要是将来你家子学跟你似得,我可得退亲,就是成了亲,我也要闺女和离,不能让我闺女付出一辈子到头来女婿还嫌她烦。”
宋表弟急了,道:“我家子学可不会,不行送你那,德哥教导?”
“你的儿子你不教,送我这来算怎么回事?要招上门女婿我也得招个老实的呀。”
“我儿子不老实?”
“不是说不老实,万一儿子随父,那就坑了我小八了。”
“不随爹,随他姑,你看我姐,我姐可是个好的,关家都夸的。”
三老爷撇撇嘴,宋表弟不明白说自己媳妇怎么扯到儿子那了。
“德哥,我也改,以后也和媳妇好好过日子,她要是胡闹,我就忍,大不了我不说话。”
“说你笨,你就是笨,弟妹要的是你啥?就是你心里要有她,你就哄着她呗,就说你心里一直装着她,年轻时不懂,爱玩了些,有时是生气弟妹不会看场合说话,才发火的,你以后就心里只有她一个,没别人,就算哪次你糊涂了,赶紧认错,说喝多了,不行就打自己俩下,你看弟妹舍得不?反正你就一条,心里从头到尾只有弟妹,以后让弟妹学着点说话,别尽得罪人。媳妇是你的,你就是再烦也要在一个院子里,那不如给弟妹说两句好话,你看弟妹会改不?你在庄子里,隔三差五的接她来住几天,回府里打理几天家事,这不就妥了。就是忍不住吵了,过后继续哄不就完了,多大点事,一个大男人,连媳妇都拢不住,还说别的啥?在外你不是会说的很?哪个朋友不说你仗义,说你豪爽,咋就和个妇人唧唧歪歪的?”
这还是有次太太说的,对表弟妹最好的办法就是表弟好话把哄住了,看表弟妹乐呵不,绝对把内宅打理的好好的,也不会再吵了。
三老爷这话把宋表弟说的脸一阵白一阵红,实在是难堪,长这么大,德哥还没因为这说过他,这么一说,自己觉得好丢人,就是呀,在外我宋八是条汉子,可在家里就混的窝囊了?难怪二姐从辽东回来骂自己是个废物,连个媳妇都哄不住,那时还想,我个大男人就是哄媳妇的?
三老爷就看着远处的太太,不时抱起儿子亲下,又抱起八娘子亲下,心里感慨,等旻山和小八都成了亲,我就和太太俩人去乡下住几年,由我来服侍太太,回报她给我谢家几十年的付出。
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